I think it’s about time that I introduced myself and my wonderful little family.
My name is Barbara. I work as a Civil Servant, three days a week, and I also teach martial arts and self-defence in my own Kung Fu school. I have lots of hobbies and interests. So many, in fact, that when I reel them off to someone, they normally get fed up of listening ha ha.
I enjoy martial arts, dancing, travelling, camping, swimming, scuba diving, playing the bagpipes, reading, writing, playing on the xbox, crafting (jewellery and accessory making, cross-stitching), watching TV and films, listening to music (most genres), singing (even though I’m tone deaf – my little man appreciates it though ha ha) and, unbelievably, studying! As I am not a student, I study off my own whim. I enjoy improving my knowledge on Ancient Greece, Ancient Egypt, various places and the history of Scotland, and fitness techniques to assist in my martial arts school. Some may say that I have a couple of unhealthy obsessions. Thus being of Scotland and Ancient Egypt. Quite a weird combination there, huh? Oh! I’m also an avid map reader. I can look at a map for hours… And yes, I am a woman… And yes, I can read maps! Wow!
My husbands’ name is Michael. We first met in primary school, at the age of 5 or 6. All throughout our school life, we went to the same schools. In some respects, we were even in the same classes, but we never spoke. We ran in different circles, so why would we? It wasn’t until 2005 when he messaged me on Friends Reunited, enquiring about the Kung Fu classes I held. On 31 october 2009, we married. The ceremony and dinner was an Autumn theme, and the party in the evening was Halloween themed. Everyone was in fancy dress!
Michael works as a self-employed photographer. He photographs anything from sitting portraits to full day weddings. He has a rather extensive list of hobbies too… Martial arts, photography, gaming, programming (on the PC for Android apps), travelling and camping. He also shares the unhealthy obsession of Scotland that I hold.
On 12 September, 2011, a bouncing baby boy came into our lives. William was a huge baby. He was 10lb 8oz born! My little squished face beauty. After 30 and a half hours labour, my consultant decided that it was just too dangerous to continue, and I was rushed for an emergency section. I was high as a kite due to all the gas & air I had been supping for 25 hours, and I really didn’t know what was going on. I can, however, remember as clear as a bell when the surgeon held him up over the curtain, ‘congratulations, you’ve had a toddler – he’s come out wearing his school uniform and briefcase in hand…’ I took one look, burst into tears saying, “he’s not mine… He’s Chinese…” Bless. William was huge! He was bruised, swollen, and had a touch of jaundice. Luckily, the jaundice cleared within 4 days.
My little man is 19 months old in two weeks. I can’t believe where the time has gone. Sometimes when I look at him, I still can’t believe that he’s here, and that he’s mine. But on the other hand, I can’t remember what it was like before he came along. I feel so blessed.
I would start listing his hobbies… But being the age that he is, his list is not as extensive as mine or Michaels’. Currently, William enjoys watching cbeebies (especially In the Night Garden), ‘splash splash’ time (baths), going out with his nanna and grandad, and general play. He’s starting to grow out of the snuggling phase, but it’s still wonderful when he climbs up on your knee to give you kisses and cuddles.
This was taken when William was only 3 hours old… Look at the face! You can tell that I’m as high as the sky in the background 🙂
And this photo was taken a couple of weeks ago. Oh, how the time has gone…